Much as each individual is unique as a snowflake, all psychics and mediums give readings in their own way.
For me, I am largely clairvoyant and clairaudient (though I do experience all the ‘clairs' to some degree), which means that I see and hear messages from Spirit. How this happens for me, is that I receive information in much the same way as how I experience a dream; it's like watching scenes from a movie in my mind.
The spirit who is providing the message is always nearby too, so I know who the information is coming from.
Nine times out of ten, your guides or deceased loved ones will pop in with some information for me even before your reading!
Typically this happens shortly after you have booked the reading. While this provides me some insight and info prior to speaking with a client, i do ‘turn it off’ and ask the spirit to wait for the scheduled session, so that meanwhile, i can continue with my life. However, they do usually stick near me, sometimes for a week or more, just hanging out, and that's fine; it's just part of the work for me.
I bring this up to illustrate how often, in spirit, a guide or loved one will help to facilitate the scheduling of a reading, because they have important information to get across to you.
They may do this by somehow managing for your and my path to cross, for you to happen by this article, or for you to otherwise connect with another Medium. Spirit then seems to keep an eye out and know just when that scheduling happens. They've worked hard to help arrange this, and are looking forward to the communication date!
So, please know and respect the time and energy extended by your spirit friends - and myself - not only during your reading, but prior to our scheduled date and time, as well.
While I won't go into all the options, I offer a variety of different readings that can be found here.
I go about them all in essentially the same way:
Once you've booked your reading, you can expect me to be in touch via email within 72hrs to schedule a day and time for your reading. After this I'll just be kickin' it with your spirits ;)
Immediately before I give a reading, I call in both my guides and your guides, set my intention and space, and focus either on you, or on your specific question or topic of inquiry (if you included one in the 'area or inquiry' section of the order form, or otherwise emailed it to me).
The only information I need to have from you is your first name and telephone number.
If you'd like to provide more, such as birth date, specific details, or pictures, that is cool too, and usually helps to speed the reading along.
Then I call you.
On the scheduled day, at the scheduled time, i will call you on the telephone number that you provided in our email communications about scheduling.
We will exchange the pleasantries, and i will give you a little run-down about how i operate.
I will explain that I've called in both your deceased loved ones and guides, as well as my guides.
I will let you know that out if respect for their time and great efforts, I will allow your spirits the first opportunity to communicate what they wish.
Then I explain that there will be time for you to ask questions when Spirit has said their piece (there will always be time for you to ask at least one question).
The Spirits know that last line is their cue, and I begin to receive information, usually immediately.
As much as I can, I will relate what i am getting, as i get it. I just spit out all that I am seeing, hearing, and feeling.
During this time when I am really channeling and communicating what I'm getting, clients often naturally comment in the affirmative or negative. Validating can help move the reading along, as once Spirit knows you got something, they will move on to the next thing. Your guides and the spirits who came to your reading want to be sure that you are getting what they are trying so hard to say.
While validations can be helpful, I ask people to hold their questions until I come to a stopping point. Otherwise, the intended message may get derailed, and Spirit and I really truly want you to receive the totality of the message that is trying to come through.
When the spirits have expressed themselves, the images will halt, and the spirits will be quiet. This is their sign to me that now it's your turn to speak and make inquiries of them.
This open dialogue time of question and answer usually takes us right up to the end if the session.
My main goal for your reading is that:
You receive the message that Spirit tried to communicate
You gain some insight, clarity, or whatever it is that you really need to hear, from Spirit
You gain comfort in knowing that you have loved ones near you and looking out for you, in spirit.
You learn something about how you can communicate with your spirits, on your own.